The updates appear in descending order with the latest update appearing at the top so when you check in each day you can easily read the latest.  However, if this is your first time here, scroll to the bottom of the page and read from the bottom up to get 'up to speed' on Mike's condition.  

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Mike would like to see you!  He needs your support, and personal interaction is vital to his recovery and rehabilitation.  He is in Room A11 of Care Haven Center located at 2720 Charles Town Road in Martinsburg WV.  His visiting hours are 8am to 8pm.  If you would like, before you visit Mike, you can call and speak with his parents at:  667-8816.  If you get the answering machine, leave a message and they will call you back.  Also...we hope that you will please continue to send cards, letters, drawings, messages, etc.  Please visit the NEWS page to learn Mike's mailing address.  Thank you.

Feb. 12, 2005... So sorry that the website hasn't been updated for a while.  My computer got old and tired and pooped out on me.  But...not to worry, the new sleek and shiny replacement is here!  Will have some new updates for you soon, please stand by!  And thank you all so much for your continued prayers and concern. 

Dec. 25, 2004... Mike, went home for a visit on Christmas Day!  His Dad picked him up about 11 am and he spent the whole day at home.  He ate lunch there and opened gifts, just like old times. :)  Several friends stopped by for a visit as well.  His parents took him back to Care Haven about 8 pm. 

Dec. 15, 2004... Today, Mike had his second eye exam by the Neuro-Ophthalmologist.  This type of Dr. looks at the eyes a bit differently than a regular Optometrist or Ophthalmologist as they are looking for the difficulties caused by trauma, diseases or defects in the brain, etc.  She said that he has permanent damage to both eyes and he is learning to compensate for some it by tilting or turning his head.  An operation on the fourth nerve of the right eye would be very touchy so instead he is to see an optometrist and be fitted for special glasses with prisms in them. One eye sits slightly higher than the other causing things to be blurred and the color concept of the right eye is bad.  Further, his left field of vision is very limited.  We pray the glasses will be helpful. 

Nov. 30, 2004... Well, Mr. Mike has been is so much pain and made such a fuss that the Dr has decided to remove the cast altogether.  Apparently, his leg goes through muscle spasms throughout the day and night.  These spasms are what causes the leg to bend up so severely.  Obviously, when the muscle spasms now, it cannot 'go' anywhere since it is restricted by the hard cast.  This, of course, causes Mike pain and discomfort.  To alleviate that, the Dr had tried doubling his pain medication (which he is always on anyhow for his continuous headaches, etc) and adding a muscle relaxant.  However, the muscle relaxant is having a bad effect on his behavior, speech and general consciousness.  This is likely due to a build-up of it in his system, but more due to it's reaction with all of the other drugs that Mike is on continuously since his accident.  So, the cast has been removed and has been modified to make it into a temporary brace that he can wear for intervals throughout the day.  Stay tuned! 

Nov. 24, 2004... The first grade class of the Winchester Academy surprised Mike this year with wonderful Thanksgiving Day cards that they had made for him!  He was able to share them with his family, friends and residents at Care Haven.  You can visit the PHOTOS page to see the cards and credit to the students. This was a really nice gesture and greatly appreciated.

Nov. 23, 2004... Mike had a trip over to Winchester Rehab today to have a cast placed onto his left leg.  After giving the Botox a couple of weeks to take effect, the therapist has tried to move Mike's leg out a bit and then they placed a hard cast onto it in an attempt to hold it in that position for a week.  He will return next week to have this cast removed, receive some therapy, and hopefully extend the leg a bit further.  If successful, they will then cast it again in that position and repeat the process in another week.  We shall see!  The Botox seems to be having an effect, but the knee appears to be somewhat locked.  We're not to happy to hear that since there is little that can be done about it short of surgery. 

Nov. 11, 2004...Mike FINALLY got to go in for his Botox injections.  We are very excited to see if these will work to help relieve the spacicity in his left leg.  These injections were placed into about 15 different locations all throughout his left leg.  You see, when Mike was injured, there was a time or event that deprived his brain of significant oxygen.  This caused him to suffer a stroke.  This stroke, along with the damage that occurred to the brain by the massive trauma, caused the left side of his entire body to be paralyzed.  This paralysis is present only because his brain cannot communicate with that side of his body.  At first, that side of his body just lay dormant.  Over time, he has gotten back some use of it, such as, getting some movement back on the left side of his face (to smile,) jaw (to chew,) neck (to hold up his head) and throat (to swallow.)  Also he has gained some stability in his trunk/core muscles so that he can sit up again, rather than fall over and have to be held upright.  But, the problem with his limbs is that over time, from not being moved and used on command from the brain...those muscles have tightened into very small tight bands.  That tightening is called spacicity and has caused his left arm and left leg to curl up and stay bent at all times.  This, of course, causes Mike a great deal of discomfort and makes it hard for him to balance when he spends time in therapy trying to learn to stand on his right left while the left leg is curled and sticking up in the air!!  It also causes problems for his caretakers, making it difficult to bathe and dress him.  It further causes challenges in trying to transport him, etc.  SO...Botox is a substance that when injected into a muscle, will paralyze it.  First, remember that Mike's muscles are not presently paralyzed, the problem is that they are not communicated with from the brain.   The point of the Botox injections is that if those muscles are now physically paralyzed, hopefully they will lose their spacicity and smooth back out so then Mike's leg will uncurl and be able to be straightened again.  If that happens, then first of all, therapists can work with it, moving and exercising it again.  This is something that is currently impossible because it had gotten so tight that you CANNOT move it, you CANNOT straighten it.  Also, if the leg will relax now, due to the Botox, a brace can be put on it to hold it straight and straighten back out those muscles.  So we have high hopes.  However, the effects of Botox takes weeks to begin to show and then only last 3 to 4 months.  Therefore, this is something that Mike would have to do maybe 3 to 4 times a year.  However, if the injections are successful, the hope is that every time will cause progress to the point that someday, the leg will stay straight and he won’t need the injections any longer.  We can hope to dream, but that is the goal.  And goals are just dreams with deadlines, you know.

Oct. 28, 2004... HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MIKE, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MIKE, HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIG MIIIII-IIIIIKE....HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MIKE!  We wish to thank everyone who sent greetings and came to visit Mike and bring gifts and cards and share in his special day.  God Bless you all!

Oct. 27th, 2004... Tomorrow is Big Mike's Birthday!   He is looking forward to having as many of his friends visit as possible.  If you have time, we sure hope you'll stop by for a visit.  Hurry!  There's gonna be CAKE !!  LOLOL :)

Oct. 24th, 2004... This weekend we've said our good-byes and buried our dear Uncle Elwood.  He was our father's last living brother.  Mike was able to make it to family night at the funeral home and visit with our family.  Although we certainly wish it were under better circumstances, it was good to see everyone and for Mike to get to visit with some of the family who have not seen him in a while, etc.  Although he also wanted to attend the funeral the next day, it was held at 11am and was too early for us to arrange everything to get him ready and transported over there.  Sometimes, there is just not enough of us or enough time to accomplish everything with him.  We could really use some help with Mike but just don't know where to turn for that.  It's days like this when we wish we had more siblings - more hands and hearts to help.  :)

Sept. 10, 2004... Mike is doing pretty well, he asked me today if his mailing address is posted on the website.   When I asked him why he'd asked me that, he said...."Do you think people could send me some mail?"  I said, "Well sure. Any particular type of mail that you'd like?"  And he replied, "Yeah, pictures."  So...here is a request for pictures.  I'm sure any kind of pleasant picture or picture postcard would be welcome.  Mike gets quite lonely and bored....as you can imagine.  And...he'd love to hear from you.  Yes, you. 

July 6, 2004... I just flew in from Dulles, and boy, are my arms tired!  yuk...yuk...yuk... :)  Hi everyone, just back from WV / VA again.  Had a great visit.  Mike was doing grand.  His spirits were up, he was feeling good and was stronger than ever.  We made 2 trips to the Apple Blossom Mall on 2 separate days.  He saw some friends there and took pictures with quite a few. (see the PHOTOS page) You will note that they are all female!  As you can see, Mike remains quite the ladies man!  We had some quality family time too.  It was nice to see even more animation coming back into the left side of his face.  He also showed me how he is getting a little bit of movement in his left arm.  Also, a great big thank you to the friends who gave Mike a Sega Genesis game system.  He is busy these days learning how to play this with one hand.  Not doing too bad so far!  If anyone has any old Sega Genesis games that they don't use anymore, he'd be glad to have them.  Much thanks to everyone for their care and concern.

June 9, 2004... Mike is doing pretty well although he's been a bit gloomy lately and a little cranky too.  Living day-in and day-out in a nursing home is certainly not the greatest experience.  Mike is in great need of 'cheerleaders' right now.  Friends and family who can take and make the time to visit with him and work with him and encourage him.  His spirits need a boost.  If you can find the time to send a card or letter, or give him a call or best yet, stop by for a visit and maybe play a game with him or draw with him, etc.  Some sort of activity to get him up and interested and involved in something.  He desperately needs to be up and active and involved in things and we can only do so much ourselves.  We really need your help...please.  A game of checkers or cards, or catch or anything artistic or creative.  Really, anything positive and social.  Even if it's just to get up and go down to the Community Room to watch TV together or to the Therapy Room to bounce the little ball around. [carefully! :) ] You get the idea.  Think of something...and just show up.  He'll be thrilled, I assure you. 

June 8, 2004... Mike had his first real haircut in almost a year today!  We, of course, aren't counting the 3 times in the past 11 months when he's had his head (or part of his head) shaved for various surgeries.  Yes, it's the first time since his accident that he's actually had the opportunity to grown enough hair to warrant a haircut!  He's quite proud.  Thanks Reggie.  God Bless!

May 25, 2004... I've just returned from another trip to VA / WV to see Mike and family.  My parents and I took him on 2 outings, 2 days in a row.  On Sunday we took a drive and made 2 quick visits with Aunts and Uncles who live close to Care Haven.  On Monday we went to the Martinsburg Mall where we visited the Arcade and a few stores.  Mike was able to visit and chat with a friend who works at the Mall as well.  Both trips went pretty well although I must say, it's quite a production and takes alot of effort to get Mike into and out of the minivan, etc.  It's alot of work, done mostly by our Dad.  Another highlight was seeing Mike doing "stand-ups." This is one of the things he does in therapy.  He is trying to learn to stand on his right leg.  He holds onto a rail and stands up using his right arm and leg to support himself.  He can get completely up and down by his own power.  He needs someone to hold onto him as his balance is still not so good.  He can stand like this for over 3 minutes now.  See the newest photo on the bottom of the PHOTOS page of Mike posing with friends for a picture and all are STANDING.  GO MIKE!!!

May 14, 2004... Today, Mike went on his first social outing since his accident.  He attended the wedding reception of one of his friends.  Other than some car trouble, (which caused him to miss the ceremony) everything went fine and he had a great time. We extend congratulations to the bride and groom!   Afterwards, Mike was determined to visit the Apple Blossom Mall.  "May as well, since I'm already in Winchester" was his logic.  He spent a good amount of time there going through the mall and visiting several friends at various stores and of course, his good friends at the Dream Machine Arcade.  He made it back to Care Haven by mid-afternoon and was still in high spirits and full of energy when I spoke to him at early evening.  The parental units, however, were entirely exhausted by the days events.  Ha!

May 12, 2004...  Mike continues to do pretty well.  His Drs and Nurses are working on trying to get his medication levels straightened out.  This is a constant issue, but is a little more challenging lately with the recent changes in his medication.  Mike's blood is tested frequently to measure the amount of medications/drugs in his system and to monitor their levels.  This is a delicate balance that can be easily upset by the slightest thing, such as him not drinking enough water or too much intake of caffeine (as in Cola!) or fat (as in junk food!)  At any rate, something so seemingly innocent can cause the levels to reach unsafe areas. Fortunately, Mike does not smoke, drink or do drugs as something like that could cause a fatal seizure.  Please continue to pray for Mike daily.

Apr. 20, 2004... Mike has been doing a little better the past few days.  His mood has improved a little, I think due to some nice weather and visits from several friends.  Mike had a CT Scan with contrast yesterday.  However, due to an equipment glitch, the results were not readily available for the Doctor to review, so we will have to wait for his report.  He did examine Mike and was pleased at his progress since the last surgery.

Apr. 12, 2004... Mike is depressed and lonely these days.  A visit from 2 friends helped to lift his spirits a little bit this afternoon.  If you can find the time for a visit, a phone call or to send a postcard or email it is really helpful for him to not feel forgotten!  (BigMikesMessages@aol.com)

Apr. 9, 2004... Mike's incisions from his most recent surgeries are healing well and he is able to slowly resume his physical therapy.  He is trying to learn to ride in a car again so that he can get out and about a little bit.  You'd think that'd be easy, right?  But it's a very different thing than being transported in an ambulance. And in his situation, it's a very big challenge for several reasons. Please continue to send prayers our way and we wish everyone a very Happy Passover or Easter Holiday!

Apr. 2, 2004... Mike has his follow-up visit and the 12 staples in his stomach were removed.  He also had a CT Scan yesterday, but I have not learned the results of that yet.  He made a visit to Winchester Rehab today for an appointment and also got to visit some of his friends there as well. He enjoyed getting to see them, of course, as he really misses being at the Rehab.   

Mar. 29, 2004... Mike is doing pretty well.  He will soon return to the Dr for follow-up CT Scans, check-up and to have his staples out.  He's a little down in the dumps lately and could really use some cheery visits from happy friends.  Maybe you can make some time to visit or call him. ??  He'd love to see or hear from you.

Mar. 26, 2004... Mike has been returned again to Care Haven Center where he continues with his recovery.  Everything appears to have gone well so far.  He will have a follow-up with his Dr in about a week.  Thanks so much for your prayers and concern. 

Mar. 25, 2004... After a delay, Mike was admitted to surgery this afternoon where his stomach was opened again and his VP Shunt re-started.  The surgeon also drew the remaining fluid from his head.  He is currently (7pm) resting uncomfortably in his room.  He is in pain, uncomfortable, hungry and a bit cranky, but doing well and making sense.  He will be kept overnight for observation.  We hope for a peaceful night and a safe return to Care Haven tomorrow.

Mar. 23, 2004... On Thursday, Mike will once again be admitted to Winchester Medical Center for yet another surgery.  This time to re-open his stomach and re-start his VP shunt.  Apparently, the attempt for it to remain closed is not working out as he continues to collect spinal fluid between his skull plate and scalp.  Hopefully, he will only need to stay overnight.  We ask for your prayers for a safe and quick surgery and shunt adjustment as well as safe travel and a speedy recovery. 

Mar. 15, 2004... Mike remains at Care Have Center and continues with his recovery.  Currently, he is experiencing a collection of fluid (called seroma) between his scalp and skull, in the area of his incision.  He has had, and will again have to have this fluid removed by the NeuroSurgeon.  We are hoping and praying that this will subside as it is a bit bothersome for Mike. 

Mar. 11, 2004... Mike, of course, still frequently has headaches and is slowly trying to regain the progress he had made prior to the cranioplasty.  He remains paralysed on his left side but on occasion is able to lift his left leg about 2-3 inches.  He loves to hear from his friends and family and looks forward to phone calls and visits.  Thanks so much for your continued concern.

Mar. 7, 2004... Mike has all of his staples out now and continues to heal relatively well.  He has resumed a little therapy, pretty much daily and is working slowly to get back to the level where he was when he left Rehab.  He's been a bit depressed lately, but all-in-all is doing good. If you would like his phone number to give him a call, please mail me at BigMikesMessages@aol.com

Mar. 2, 2004... Yesterday, Mike had half of his staples out when his nurse removed every other one.  (He had 50 in his scalp and 12 in his stomach)  Since that seemed to go well, the rest were removed today.  He still has some puffiness at his incision sites, but he seems to be healing well.  He continues to enjoy visits from friends & family and his attitude seems to be improving.   Thank you for your continued prayers and support.

Feb. 28, 2004...  Mike continues to do well in his recovery.  He has settled into his new room at Care Haven and enjoys visits most days from his friends.  This has an awesome impact on his spirits and we really appreciate those friends who remain close and committed.  God Bless!

Feb. 23, 2004... Mike was moved out of NS-ICU to a private room yesterday morning and was discharged from Winchester Medical Center this afternoon.  He has returned to Care Haven Center, but is in a different room this time, 32B.  He's doing well and would love to hear from you.

Feb. 22, 2004... Mike continues to do well in his recovery.  He is without bandaging now and taking less medications for pain.  He's still a bit tired but doing OK.  He will likely move out of NS-ICU today.  Will keep you posted. 

Feb. 20, 2004... Mike is doing well.  His bandaging was reduced and he was allowed to view himself today.  He is experiencing some pain and fatigue.  His spirits are pretty good.  He had a little therapy today to stretch his limbs and he sat up in his wheelchair for about an hour.  He currently remains in NS-ICU.  Thanks to everyone for their concern.

Feb. 19, 2004... Mike's Doctor said that the surgery went well.  Mike is stable and is currently in NS-ICU.  He will not be receiving visitors while he is in NS-ICU this time.  He is quite uncomfortable and in pain.  He is also not yet entirely conscious, etc.  We will keep you posted here of any news.  Thank you for your concern and prayers.

Feb. 18, 2004...  OK folks, tomorrow is the big day.  Mike was admitted to WMC late this morning and will have his cranioplasty at 7:30am.  This surgery will take several hours.  He should be out of surgery by noon, but I will not be updating until probably around 6pm tomorrow.  We appreciate your thoughts and prayers for Mike, our family and the surgeons, nurses and staff.

Feb. 15, 2004...  Mike is doing pretty well.  He has been having visitors consistently, which helps to keep his spirits lifted.  He has been having a little therapy each day. Mike has begun purposefully moving his left leg.  It is just a small lifting movement, but it is on command and not just reflex.   As you can imagine, this is very encouraging!

Feb. 10, 2004... Mike's cranioplasty has again been rescheduled.  It is currently set for 2/19. He will likely be admitted to Winchester Medical Center a day or two in advance.  We will keep you posted.  Please continue to remember Mike and his family and friends in your prayers. 

Feb. 4, 2004... Mike is adjusting to his new surroundings.  He seems to be a little depressed and is being a bit lazy!  Visitors who help lift his spirits and give him encouragement to keep working hard on his recovery are priceless.  Mike needs all the help he can get and a good cheering section to boot!

Jan. 30, 2004... Mike is on the move again!  Mike has been discharged from WRC and now resides at Care Haven Center in Martinsburg WV.  We are working on getting his phone hooked up there.  He is a bit anxious, adjusting to his new surroundings and also regarding his upcoming surgery.  Please continue to remember Mike in your prayers and now would be an awesome time to send him a card, etc. to cheer him.  (The mailing address is on the "NEWS" page)

Jan. 24, 2004... Mike is on the move!   Mike has been moved to a different room at Winchester Rehab.  He is now in Room 3316, bed A.  His phone number has also changed.  You can call his parents, or visit him to get his new number. Or you can request it by email: BigMikesMessages@aol.com 

Jan. 22, 2004... Mike's place seems to be THE place to be this week as he has had numerous visitors every evening so far this week!  He really enjoys the visits from his friends and they also enjoy seeing Mike and his progress as well.  We certainly appreciate all of you who remain faithful friends.  God Bless!

Jan. 18, 2004... Mike's progress continues slowly.  He has been doing better with eating and has managed to gain back some of the weight he had lost. We're happy about that as we want him to have a 'little extra on hand' before going in for his cranioplasty.  The surgery has been rescheduled for Feb. 10th as the manufacturer of his skull plate was unable to meet the original delivery date. (The surgery was originally scheduled for Jan. 28th.)

• To learn more about skull plate manufacture visit:  http://snipurl.com/3lj6   
• You can learn about the cranioplasty procedure by visiting:  http://snipurl.com/3lis

Jan. 14, 2004... After another adjustment to his medication, Mike moves ahead at a slow pace of progress.  His sense of humor and wit are returning and he is beginning to have increased tone, inflection and emotion in his voice and words.  He logs on to this website several times a day looking for new messages from you.  If you have a second, I hope you'll take the time to say ''HI" to him.  To do so... (just click here)

Jan. 9, 2004... Mike has really brightened the last couple of days. I feel that this is due to the several calls and visits that he has had with friends this week.  The support and contact of caring friends is one of the best therapies for him and I can always see a difference in him when his friends have taken the time to call or visit.  It's encouraging to see how these visits always make such a positive impact on his recovery and rehabilitation. I know that it is also exciting and therapeutic for his friends as well, to be able to 'make a difference' in Mike's life.

Jan. 7, 2004... Mike has his second outing today, a visit to the Dream Machine Arcade in the Apple Blossom Mall.  This is the Arcade where he is so well-known as he was Assistant Manager there.  Mike dreams of being able to return to work at the Arcade someday.  Wouldn't that be something?  A big 'thank you' to the Therapists, the Arcade and all of Mike's friends, family and former co-workers for making this a special day. PHOTO

Jan, 4, 2004... Mike has gotten pretty good at logging on to this website by himself.  He likes to read the Messages that you leave for him on the Message Board.  You can click here to heave a message for him today!

Jan. 3, 2004... Mike has been in a good mood, talkative and very much enjoying the visits and phone calls that he has received from friends this week.  He is looking forward to a second outing this coming week.  I have posted one picture so far of his first outing which was to the bowling alley. PHOTO

Jan. 1, 2004...   ! ! !    H A P P Y    N E W    Y E A R   ! ! !

Dec. 30, 2003... Mike was transported to Winchester Medical Center yesterday morning where they made the CT Scans that will be used to custom manufacture his skull plate. To learn more about skull plate manufacture visit: http://snipurl.com/3lj6  The cranioplasty is scheduled for Jan. 28th. You can learn about the cranioplasty procedure by visiting http://snipurl.com/3lis

Dec. 27, 2003... Mike had so much fun distributing the cookies that his Mom had baked for Christmas, that he had exhausted his supply by Friday noon.  So, his Mom and Sister stayed up late that night to bake some more which he got busy handing out on Saturday.  There is a picture of "Mike the Cookie Elf" on the PHOTOS page.  Season's Greetings !!

Dec. 26, 2003...  Last evening...Christmas...Mike received what he had been asking Santa for when just after dinner, his Sister walked into his room with a red bow stuck to her head and exclaimed "Merry Christmas!"  Mike, as well as his Parents, were quite surprised by this visit, to say the least!  We hope that you are your family are having a blessed holiday too!

Dec. 25, 2003... M e r r y    C h r i s t m a s !

Dec. 24, 2003... Mike is really enjoying the visits from his friends and the holiday cards and gifts that some have brought as well.  We wish everyone a blessed and joyous holiday season and thank you for your support and prayers.

Dec. 22, 2003... Mike was very excited to talk about the visits he had today from various people and the Christmas gifts he received today as well.  It is wonderful that several of his friends have been able to make it by to visit with him.  We cannot stress enough how very important it is for Mike that his friends visit with him.  This is extremely important for his memory.  Mike has been in a hospital room or the near equivalent of a hospital room for over 5 months as he has suffered a Traumatic Brain Injury.  If he's going to remember you...he has to SEE you either in person or by clear, large photographs.  We encourage his friends to visit as often as possible and to also send photos as well.  You can email a photo to: BigMikesMessages@aol.com.  If you would like to mail a photo by 'snail mail'  just write a quick email to this address and I will email you back with a postal mailing address.  Happy Holidays!

Dec. 21, 2003... Mike has been doing pretty well lately.  He's been eating a little more and has been more talkative.  He is looking forward to Christmas and hoping that more of his friends will be able to stop by for a visit for the holidays. 

Dec. 19, 2003... Mike has been a bit more alert the last couple of days since the last adjustment to his medication.  He's been eating a little better as well.  He has been enjoying some visits from friends and Santa.  I hope all of his friends will be able to make it by to see him before Christmas!

Dec. 17, 2003... Well, after 5 months in captivity  :-)  Mike got to see the streets of Winchester again today.  He was taken out by special transport, by his therapists, to Northside Lanes.  While there he narrowly beat them in a friendly game of bowling.  GO Mike !!  PHOTO After dinner he had a visit from a childhood friend.  Visits do so very much for him.  Thank you to all of his friends who remain supportive.

Dec. 16, 2003... Mike had a fall today in therapy but he seems to be OK.  He seemed to be a little depressed on the phone this evening, but sometimes it's not so easy to tell with him.  If you can find a few minutes in your busy holiday schedule, he sure would love a visit from you.  Trust me.

Dec. 14, 2003... Mike has been doing better since the last adjustment to his medication.  He has been eating a little more the last couple of days too.  This makes us happy and should help him in his quest to gain strength and be able to help more with his transfers.

Dec. 12, 2003... Mike seems to be losing the sluggishness that was plaguing him last week.  He is beginning to look forward to Christmas and wishing for lots of visits from friends between now and then.  He's been working on standing up with the various therapy equipment each day.  Although he's far away from standing on his own, the use of the equipment enables him to be able to put weight on his legs.  This helps him to gain strength and helps to alleviate some of the pain in them.

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Dec. 10, 2003... I cleared the wall in Mike's room of all the birthday and get well cards so that he can hang up all of his incoming Christmas cards.  Here is his mailing address:  Mike Heironimus - Room 3301, Winchester Rehabilitation Center, 333 West Cork Street, Winchester VA  22601.  He's doing a little better today.  A slight adjustment in his medications will hopefully cause some of this sluggishness to go away and his appetite to return. 

Dec. 9, 2003... Mike remains at Winchester Rehab for the time being.  He continues with various therapies there.  He's a little sluggish and somewhat weak lately.  We think perhaps because he barely eats and is losing lean muscle mass at a rate which we are not comfortable with.  We don't exactly understand why that is, but we're trying to find out.  There are new pics on the "PHOTOS" page.

Dec. 8, 2003... Mike is OK today.  He seems to be having some trouble with very painful muscle cramps and spasms in his left leg and hand.  Unfortunately...pain often stops and/or delays progress in other areas.

Dec. 7, 2003... Mike continues to do pretty well and he had a visit from Santa this morning. (click here to see photo)  Mike is finding it challenging to eat and drink enough to properly sustain him.  Please remember Mike in your prayers and pray for him to gain strength.

Dec. 6, 2003... Mike is enjoying the scenery outside his window of the snowy day.  He's doing well today.  Ate pretty well and worked out with the weights a little bit.

Dec. 5, 2003... Mike is better today and we're glad to see his appetite return after 2 days of it's absence. He did a little more bowling today and is looking forward to a visit from the therapy bunnies this evening.

Dec. 4, 2003... Mike is a little brighter today than yesterday, but still somewhat subdued.  He worked on the rowing machine and with the therapy dog "Sofie" a bit today.

Dec. 3, 2003...  Mike is a bit tired and sluggish today.  Some days are better than others, but that's true for all of us isn't it?  He played a little BINGO this evening with his Dad & Sis. 

Dec. 2, 2003... Mike had a bright and busy day.  He showed his Sister how he stands in the "pulpit" for almost 20 minutes.  Wow...is this ever difficult and painful for him. After dinner he enjoyed a visit from friends. He was very happy to have this visit and was quite alert and into it.

Dec. 1, 2003...  Mike continues with his rehabilitation.  He has been enjoying a little home cooking brought in by his Mother and Sister.

Nov. 30, 2003...  Mike will have therapy this afternoon. Although Mike is very quiet and laid back, I cannot tell you how very much he enjoys visits from his friends! The best times for visiting around 6 pm weekdays and after 1 pm weekends.

Nov. 29, 2003... Mike had therapy this morning after breakfast where he lifted some weights and worked a bit on the hand bike.  He enjoyed a visit from friends in the afternoon and had dinner with his Mom and Sister.  In the evening he sat up a bit and signed all of his Christmas Cards! (I was impressed!)

Nov. 28, 2003... Mike didn't have therapy yesterday as the therapists were all enjoying a day off for Thanksgiving.  So...like most Americans celebrating Thanksgiving, Mike relaxed and watched TV most of the day and enjoyed a turkey dinner with his family.

Nov. 27, 2003...  HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Mike won`t have therapy today because of the holiday. He is doing better on eating skills and should be able to enjoy some turkey today.  In therapy they have been working on transfers from and to wheelchair and back to bed. He has been really enjoying visits from friends. We hope all of you have a wonderful Thanksgiving Day and may God continue to bless.

Nov. 26, 2003... Mike seems to be in a good mood today. He had the stand up box therapy today which is difficult for him but he tolerated it okay.  He ate at a different level table today where he enjoyed some homemade vegetable soup that Mom made for him. This morning he heard his name being lifted up in prayer on WTRM radio.

Nov. 25, 2003...  Mike maintains good vital signs.  His body weight continues to decrease which causes us some concern.  He still works daily on strengthening his right side.  The left side of his body remains paralyzed and painful.  His speech therapy appears to be going well.  He has a very long way to go but we thank God for each little step of improvement.  Your continued concern and support means so much to all of us.

Nov. 24, 2003... Mike continues to struggle with getting the strength back in his right side to help him be able to assist more in his transfers  from bed to his wheelchair and back to bed.  The therapists are a great bunch of people and Mike responds to them and works with them pretty well.

Nov. 23, 2003... I was just preparing a Thanksgiving Day card for Mike and figured that you would like to do the same ... so here is his mailing address:  Mike Heironimus - Room 3301, Winchester Rehabilitation Center, 333 West Cork Street, Winchester VA 22601.  Mike should have one session of therapy today.  The struggle to regain strength is long and painful sometimes.  We all appreciate your concern and compassion. 

Nov. 22, 2003... Today Mike was doing some exercises to strengthen his right arm. The therapists exercise his left arm for him.  He has had friends come to visit with him a couple of times this week.  This really makes such a difference in his mental strength, mood and outlook.  If you haven't been to visit Mike yet, I encourage you to take the time to do so.  Trust me...it will be as good for you as it is for him.

Nov. 21, 2003... Mike is working on learning to transfer from the wheelchair and then back into it, etc.  They are working on stretching and strengthening his muscles and he continues with speech therapy as well.  We appreciate your prayers and thoughts so much!

Nov. 20, 2003... Mike's neuro surgeon felt that he was doing well in the first stages of a long recovery.  He said that they will design a custom plate to replace the missing portion of Mike's skull.  The cranioplasty (skull reconstruction surgery) will not take place until after the first of the year.

Nov. 19, 2003...  Mike goes to his neuro surgeon today for a check-up.  He continues with therapy twice a day but his  progress has not reached the level we had all hoped for.  If he had use of the left side of his body, that would be a big help. 

Nov. 18, 2003... Mike's vital signs, which include blood pressure, heart rate, temperature and breathing still continue to be stable.  He has had friends visiting which helps up-lift his spirits.  His various therapies continue twice a day during the week and once a day on the weekend.  The therapy which works on him standing, is very painful for him.

Nov. 17, 2003... Thankfully, Mike's vital signs have been quite stable for a couple of weeks now.  The therapy is helping to strengthen his right side so he can help some as they lift him to his wheelchair and back to bed.  His appointment with his Neuro surgeon was changed to Wednesday.  We'll keep you posted !

Nov. 16, 2003... Mike was put in the stand-up box (nicknamed the pulpit) again today in therapy.  This is quite painful for him but is necessary to help him strengthen his legs.  He can only stand in it for about 10 to 15  minutes.  He does his best and doesn't complain.  He's such a sweetheart, you know. :)

Nov. 15, 2003... Mike ate better today and seems to be in a good frame of mind.  He had several friends visit. He can have visitors from 6 to 9 p.m. during the week and after 12 noon on the weekends.  His therapy is going well.  Friday they put him in a 'standing box' for awhile.  This was very hard for him to do but he did pretty well.  Thank you so much for continued concern and prayers.

Nov. 14, 2003... Mike's vitals are holding relatively steady. The therapists give him coordination and strength exercises. His progress is slow but he is showing some gains. Everyone has a good, helpful and patient attitude. Please remember his caretakers and therapists in your thoughts and prayers.

Nov. 13, 2003... Mike takes therapy in the morning and afternoon.  The left side needs special attention because of the paralysis. They have been taping the left shoulder and left leg to try to alleviate some of the pain and discomfort that he has in those joints.  When I was there this past weekend I hung up alot of the get well, thinking of you and birthday cards that he has gotten.  They sure do help to bring some cheer to his room.  Thank you.

Nov. 12, 2003... Mike is holding his own on good vital sign readings.  The therapists are expanding the different types of movements and machines they use to help him try and recover more strength and confidence.

Nov. 11, 2003... Mike's vital signs were good today. Also today, he was able, for the first time since July 20th, to lay on his stomach for a few minutes.  The therapist and the staff are doing great with Mike.  Thanks to them and all of you who are praying for us.

Nov. 10, 2003... The therapists have taped Mike's left hip and shoulder to help keep them in place and relieve pain.  He still daily wears a specially made brace for his left hand to keep his fingers extended.  His attitude has been good and he is starting to eat and take liquids better.

Nov. 9, 2003... Mike's vital signs are holding well.  He ate good at lunch today. The therapists are continuing to work on strengthening his muscles and working with memory skills and communication.  He remains at Winchester Rehabilitation Center on Cork Street.  No decision yet on when to e-construct his skull.

Nov. 8, 2003... Mike gets uncomfortable when he has to sit up in the wheelchair for a period of time as his left hip is causing him pain when sitting.  The therapists are still working to get his right side stronger.  He eats his meals in the lunchroom regularly now.

Nov. 7, 2003...  Mike seems to be getting along okay without the PEG tube.  He is able to swallow his medications by mouth.  He had some of his friends visiting and that helps his memory and lifts his spirits.  He continues with the various therapies.  Thanks for your love, concern and prayers.

Nov. 6, 2003... Mike had his PEG (stomach feeding tube) removed yesterday afternoon. The Occupational Therapists continued with exercises to strengthen his right arm and leg. The Speech Therapist is helping him with reading, memory, math skills, chewing and swallowing.  His vital signs were good this morning.

Oct. 11, 2003... Mike had a good night and his vital signs were OK this morning.  He should have some physical therapy today. His left side is still not functional.  They will be putting him on the tilt table again today as well.  He went outside for a couple of minutes yesterday.  They took him in a wheelchair to get a little fresh air.

Oct. 10, 2003... Mike had a restful night. His vital signs are good.  He ate about half of his breakfast this morning. They are putting him on a tilt table today try to get him used to the idea of attempting to stand. Also to put some weight on his legs to add to his strength, etc. His left shoulder has been taped to help ease pain and they have made a brace for his left forearm, wrist and hand. Please pray for Mike and the therapists as they work together on his recovery. 

Oct. 9, 2003... Mike rested well last night.  Presently hoping and working to increase the amount of food he will eat by mouth feeding. Mike is taking physical therapy and spends some time each day sitting in a wheelchair. He is still in Isolation at this time. Please continue to pray for improvement especially for his left side.

Oct. 8, 2003... Mike had a reasonably good night. He continues taking some food by mouth. The therapist made an arm brace for his left forearm, wrist and hand. They have again changed his bed so they can now use a lift to get him into a wheelchair easier since it takes several of them to lift and transfer him. Please continue to pray for return of use of the left side of his body.

Oct. 7, 2003... Mike seems to be adjusting to his new surroundings and new staff, therapists, doctors, etc. He continues taking some food by mouth along with machine feedings directly into his stomach. Mike still needs to be lifted, moved and balanced by a team of therapists to sit up.  He can sit on the edge of his bed on his own for a few moments.  He also sits in a wheelchair for a little while each day, he is not able to sit in the wheelchair on his own, however.  Attempts at standing are a long way away...and hopes of walking again are only but a distant dream at this point in time.  But....we do not give up hope of what Mike may be able to accomplish some day.  He is certainly a miracle by the mere fact that he has survived thus far.  Mike has no control or purposeful movement of the left side of his body from head to toe. At this time, he remains on isolation status, but he needs to hear from you.  -->  A lot and often. 

Oct. 6, 2003... Mike rested well last night. His nausea condition seems to be improving. He is eating some by mouth. His vital signs are good.  He is still unable to move his left side.  At present he remains in isolation, we hope that status to change soon. 

Oct. 5, 2003... Mike's vital signs are still holding well. They/we continue to work with Mike to get him to take food by mouth. Please pray about his left side as so far it doesn't seem to be responding to therapy. He remains in isolation.  We appreciate your support.

Oct. 4, 2003... Mike's vital signs are still holding pretty good. He took some purreed food by mouth yesterday evening and a small amount of egg this morning.  He will have limited therapy today. He is still in isolation and as I mentioned yesterday, would love to hear from you :)     (if you need his mailing address...email me at BigMikesMessages@aol.com and I will email it to you.)

Oct. 3, 2003... Mike's vital signs were good this morning.  He was somewhat unsettled for part of the night but was able to settle down a bit and get some rest.  He continues with daily therapies and is eating a little bit of food by mouth now.  He is still on isolation status for the time being but would certainly love to receive a card or note in the mail from you!  (if you need his mailing address...email me at BigMikesMessages@aol.com and I will email it to you.)

Oct. 2, 2003... Mike slept well during the night with seemingly no nausea and no vomiting. (hooray!)  He had some meds for headache and had a pretty restful night.  Yesterday he had therapy where he worked on re-learning his balance and was able to sit on the edge of his bed for a few minutes on his own.  He is also learning to turn himself in bed a little bit.  Mike is still unable to move his left side. The therapists also worked with moving his left arm and leg which causes him pain, but is necessary.  Mike really needs the support of his friends! Thanks for your concern.

Oct. 1, 2003... Yesterday, day 72...Mike was finally discharged from  Winchester Medical Center and admitted to Winchester Rehabilitation Center.  He was somewhat restless during the night there and received medication for pain and to calm him.  He had no nausea during the night.  He will begin therapy there today.  I still need your help with the project posted on the "NEWS" page !! Thanks!

Sept. 30, 2003... Mike's vital signs remain good this morning.  He had no nausea during the night.  His tube feeding continue during the night and attempting to feed some by mouth during the day.  We are expecting him to be moved to rehab soon, possibly today.

Sept. 29, 2003... Mike's vital signs were good at 6:20 a.m.  He continues on nausea medication. They are still attempting daily liquid feedings by mouth and continuing the night time feeding by stomach tube.  He should have therapy again today. His overall condition appears about the same.  Many thanks to all you wonderful people who continue to pray.  Please read the above notice regarding visitation.  Also, please check the "NEWS" page. I really need your help with the project posted there! 

Sept. 28, 2003... Mike's vital signs are holding good but with some fluctuations. His nausea is still bothersome though. He continues to have feeding through the stomach tube at night and he is taking some liquids by mouth during the day.  He can have some visitors - but - read the above notice regarding visitation.  Also, please check the "NEWS" page. I really need your help with the project posted there!  Thank you!

Sept. 27, 2003... Mike's vital signs are good at the present time. His problems with nausea continue to improve little by little. He is having tube feedings at night and some feeding and liquids by mouth during the day.  Mike remains in isolation due to infection.  His left side is still not functional but he continues to receive some physical therapy. Please read the above notice regarding visitation. Your prayers are so appreciated.

Sept. 26, 2003... Mike's vital signs were good at 6:30 a.m.  His nausea seems to be improving somewhat. He is having tube feedings at night and they are attempting to hand feed him a little during the day along with his daily tube feedings. He is expected to receive physical therapy again today. He remains on Isolation status.  Please read the above notice regarding visitation.  Thank you for your concern.

Sept. 25, 2003... Mike's BP and temperature are good this morning. However, his heart rate remains elevated. Mike has contracted yet another infection and has now been put on Isolation status. He will receive a new antibiotic starting today. Please continue to pray for Mike and our family. My parents have been sick with colds and have been unable to visit him for several days.  Please read the above notice regarding visitation as it has changed.  Thank you!

Sept. 24, 2003... Mike's BP and temperature are good this morning but his heart rate is still a bit high.  He had no vomiting during the night.  He remains on antibiotics and medicine for nausea. He is having physical therapy again and will attempt to re-start swallowing with liquid test today. They removed the trache yesterday morning. That seemed to go well and he is adjusting to that at this time as well. Please check the "NEWS" page. I really need your help with the project posted there!  Thank you!

Sept. 23, 2003... Mike's vital signs have varied some but are still at an acceptable level. He continues on medication for nausea and did not need pain medication during the night. They are decreasing the IV feeding and increasing stomach input. Please check the "NEWS" page. I really need your help with the project posted there!  Thank you!

Sept. 22, 2003... Mike's vital signs have remained stable and his nausea has improved. They have restarted feeding directly into his stomach through the tube.  (crossing our fingers!)   He rested better last night. His left side still remains inactive. Please check the "NEWS" page. I really need your help with the project posted there!  Thank you!

Sept. 21, 2003... Mike rested well again last night.  His vital signs are good this morning.  The infection problems seem to have improved. He still has no use of his left side.  He has been moved back out of NSICU. Please check the "NEWS" page. I really need your help with the project posted there, please.  Thank you!

Sept. 20, 2003... Mike's BP & temp remain stable.  His heart rate is still slightly elevated.  He had a restful night and remains in ICU.  We are waiting for final results on one questionable blood culture.  Nausea remains a nagging problem. 

Sept. 19, 2003... Mike's BP & temp are holding well. His heart rate is still elevated and he remains in ICU. Still haven't received blood culture results yet. Mike is still on IV's & medications for infections, pain & nausea. He is quite unsettled but hanging in there.

Sept. 18, 2003... Mike's vital signs have improved. He is still in NSICU.  So far tests appear okay but still waiting for results of blood cultures.  We have not yet received a full report from the Drs. Mike